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I agree Phil , Confronting the inner parents (parental introjects) is the important thing to me. This comes after the feelings make the connection with the memory. There is repressed anger, rage, hurt feelings, sadness, mourning and then the integration (confrontation) followed by clarity, freedom, ...

Cesar, Dennis, It is sometimes difficult to determine what one's agenda is (Ross Et al) nor will I venture to guess what it is not (I know very little about these sources). Sooner or later unscrupulous motives are exposed (even the unconscious ones). Its fair to speculate and raise these issues base...

Cesar Wrote: OK, CC: but that?s not my point. Sorry Cesar, I think I lost your point. I do that sometimes. Hi Phil, Phil Wrote: Something that often gets missed in debates about repressed memories is that there are at least two distinct types of memories. There are higher brain images, which most p...

Dennis Wrote: Loftus' work is not about memories being wrong, but that there are no such things as repressed memories of abuse (which has been proven without any doubt that they DO exist). Well said Dennis. Also, Loftus could not believe in her fallacy (no such thing as repressed memories of abuse)...

Yes Cesar, I remember what Daniel said on his forum about false memories still being ?genuine? (to a large degree I think). The child only wants to express what he could not understand, intellectualize or make sense of at the time. They have no point of reference, they can only describe according to...

Hi Dennis, Thanks for making the Loftus video available. It was fascinating. Dennis Wrote: ?and I really enjoyed seeing how Wim Kayzer exposed Loftus in such a calm and direct way. Yes I agree. I think that he is an outstanding interviewer. But I also felt sadness for Elizabeth; she had so much unre...

Cesar Wrote: ?what I told Phil a few days ago: real psychology is forbidden in the academia? Because of the emotional disconnection on the part of academia, they place their efforts on describing and treating mainly what they can see (observe), the symptom, resulting in the misconception of making ...

I agree with Phil. A plan? Silly, there is nothing underhanded about our posting our opinion. Cesar brought to our attention something and we responded to it, very simple. The person turning this into a conspiracy and talking about suspicion is projecting their paranoid experiences. I hope it is not...

Cesar, I hear what you are saying. I do not have too much time to adequately reply but I will say the following: Do not insult the editor. Please care enough to know that you are one of a few that can add tremendous value to wikiland. When people read things that are from another time in history, th...

Hi Dennis, Thanks for pointing this letter out. I don?t get the chance to visit AM's site that often. It is disquieting to see that even after reading AM?s books, the message doesn?t completely hit home. That is because the message hits home when the words are allowed to connect with the deep (painf...

Breaking Down Walls of Silence

Looks great Dennis.

Hi Cesar, Hope you are doing well. Cesar wrote: P.S. My general and all of my (Bauer?s) CTU friends: Can you give me a hand at the bottom of this page ? I have read the links provided. Regarding the ADHD discussion with Scuro, Like Dennis says, very impressive. I am a bit ignorant to the subject mat...

cc wrote: Today, I believe that there is a designer of our universe [?]. For now, at least to me, there is too much evidence to support that a Designer of the universe does not exist. Cesar wrote: I?m a bit confused here. Thanks Cesar, yep I would be confused too. What this should say is: Today, I ...

Cesar Wrote: I liked your post and photo. It conveys the idea of what God is. Freud said (and I rarely quote the guy!) that what a child should feel the most, helplessness before an omnipotent adult, may be the cause of theism. I used to believe in God. Not anymore. Do you remember the ?problem of ...