Re: The Swedish Corporal Punishment Ban and the Vikings.
Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:21 am
PS. Oh, excuse! It shouldn't be both Yes and no i the beginning, but only No!??
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Karin: That triggered something!! A lot actually? You hit the nail (??). “Just taught!!” Learned from outside. As a marionette! That’s exactly how it is many, many times??? No real confidence in the child and its good will or inner capacities, for instance for love etc. You are behaving natural, normal, well-adapted, but more or less cleverly or intelligently?Steve wrote: …probably is just taught...
Karin: No, I don’t think you are!! I didn’t interpret you so either!Steve wrote: So: what's "growing up"? (I'm not putting myself down--I'm not a complete social waste--the fact is this guy was extraordinary.)
Karin: Yes, actually it did!!Steve wrote: Re your colleague's approbation: don't that feel good?
Karin: Hmmm… I hope you did, really!!Steve wrote: Okay even though I use all ten fingers to type instead of just two and am using my own language, I'm totally beaten, have to give up.
Karin:I say the same!Steve wrote: Nice talking
Claustrophobia is an irrational fear. And as always with phobias, the person doesn't know why he or she is experiencing them. But the body remembers it. Some time in your life you were in a small place and couldn't get out. It must have scared you a lot. This could even go back to a problematic birth where the baby struggled to get out, or when the delivery was delayed because the obstetrician hadn't arrived (some babies were literally held back by the hands of nurses). I'm a bit surprised to hear that you consider genetic causes in phobias. Isn't the core of Alice Miler's discoveries based on the fact that all irrational fears are based on environmental factors? What you feel during a panic attack of feeling claustrophobic is a real physical memory of an event (or multiple events) from your early life. Taken such feelings seriously, as what they are: memories of the past, is in my opinion crucial in integrating these feelings so that they won't cause panic anymore.Karin wrote:And from where does this claustrophobia come? No, I don’t think it sits in the genes, and not that human species is born with this… O course I can be wrong…